Write what happened.
Keep it plain: who, what, when, where, and what made you pause.
Spotter
Your child’s safety is too important to guess.
Spotter helps parents document concerns and recognize patterns over time.
Troubling online messages. Bullying. A change in behavior you can’t explain. Keep the dates, exact words, and details together before you talk with someone you trust.
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See what that looks like
A concern, with the details still attached.
Illustrative example — not a customer record.
Something you noticed
Tuesday: a message asks your child to keep a conversation secret. Thursday: they seem upset after using the same app.
What you record
Keep the dates, exact words, and what you observed as separate notes. Review them together before speaking with someone you trust.
The moments you keep replaying
One odd moment can be nothing. A pattern is different.
Spotter gives you one calm place to keep the facts together.
- An online conversation worries youKeep the exact words, date, and context of messages that raise concerns about grooming or predatory behavior. Record what you noticed without treating a concern as proof.
- Bullying or a change in behavior keeps returningNote changes at school, online, or at home. Look back across dates before deciding whether separate events form a pattern.
- You need to talk to someoneBring a clear timeline to a teacher, doctor, counselor, co-parent, or other trusted person.
- You need a next stepUse the record to decide what deserves a conversation, more attention, or professional help.
An illustrative thought
“I knew I was worried. I needed to know why.”
Less guessing. More clarity.
Take the pressure off your memory.
Worry can make every detail feel loud. Spotter keeps the date, your note, and the context in one place. Later, you can look at the whole picture with a calmer head.
How it works
Notice it. Record it. Look at the pattern.
Add context.
Save the details that may matter later without making a diagnosis or accusation.
Review the timeline.
Look for what repeats, then decide who should see it and what happens next.
A few honest answers
A record helps. It does not replace help.
Does Spotter detect predators or diagnose anyone?
No. Spotter records what you choose to document. It does not monitor your child, automatically detect predators or grooming, diagnose mental health conditions, or establish that an accusation is true.
Who sees the record?
You control the record and choose what to share. Spotter is built for calm documentation, not public posting.
What if someone is in danger?
Do not wait on an app. Contact local emergency services or a trusted professional who can help now.
When “something feels wrong” is not enough
Give the worry a date, a place, and a record.
Start free. Keep the facts close. Decide what they mean when you can see the whole pattern.
7 days free, then $5/month. Cancel anytime.